Speed Dating and Handwriting Analysis

Author: Phil Billitz

When you go to a speed dating event, time is of the essence. You only have a few minutes to create rapport, gather information about the person you are talking to, and create a positive impression that will make the potential date want to see you again. Then, when filling out the "follow-up" list, you will want to screen out people who are not compatible with you because of their personality or capability for sexual intimacy.

Handwriting analysis can be very useful when speed dating in a number of ways. By introducing it in a speed dating situation, it will make the other person interested in you, give you lots of information about them, allow you to screen out people who aren't compatible, and give the ones who are a reason to want to see you again.

People are almost always very interested in handwriting analysis, particularly women. So, guys, if you were to ask for a sample of the woman's handwriting immediately after the introduction, it would do several things - generate immediate interest and intrigue, set you apart from the string of other guys she is meeting, and give her a reason to want to talk to you more. And, it will let her know that you are screening women for something other than looks - which can be very powerful when dealing with especially attractive women.

If you are a woman, how many times have you found out too late that the guy who initially seemed so attractive ends up being closed off to connection and intimacy, or just plain untrustworthy? Save yourself grief and heartache by screening for personality "Hell Traits" such as someone with a hot temper, who is anti-social, or has issues with the opposite sex. By getting a handwriting sample you are telling the guy "I am going to check you out - before I give my heart to you". Anyone with bad intentions will be put on notice and likely pass on future contact.

Handwriting analysis also gives you the opportunity to decide whether the person is someone you want to spend more time with. There are a dozen or so easily recognizable "Hell Traits" that will tell you to steer clear of a particular person. No matter how attractive they are, negative personality traits such as lying, dual personality, or low self esteem could make for a relationship nightmare.

Be careful, you don't want to make the whole encounter about handwriting analysis. Just get the sample of their handwriting (must be done in cursive), take a quick look to see if there are any "Hell Traits" showing up, size up their sex drive and potential for sexual intimacy, then put it away. Tell the person you see some interesting things, too bad you don't have time to talk about them right now, and shift into the normal speed dating ritual.

If they press you for details, you might leave them with a provocative comment or hint, but leaving them curious about what you have found will greatly enhance the chances they will put you on their "follow-up" list. By knowing a small number of easily learned handwriting analysis techniques, you will get many more follow-up date requests and those that you do follow-up with will be much more likely to be someone whose personality and sex drive is compatible with your own.

The quickest and easiest way to learn handwriting traits is to use the Grapho-Deck Handwriting Analysis Cards. Easy to learn and use, portable and a source of fascination to whoever you are chatting up.

You don't need to know a lot about handwriting to have a whole lot of fun when speed dating - and even more fun afterwards!

Phil Billitz